I have been a lesbian for over 7 years. I am very much in love with my partner, and we are sexually intimate almost every single day of the week – sometimes more than once! But one thing that has always turned me on is watching two women having sex together (either vaginal or anal intercourse).
The first time it happened was when I was 19 years old. It was during college break at a friend’s house who had just moved into her new apartment. Her name was Christine; she was 18 and lived nearby me in New York City. She invited some friends to come over and hang out after they finished studying for exams. One girl there was named Lisa, whom I knew from high school but didn’t really talk to anymore since she seemed to be “all about” this guy Nick. Anyway, Lisa was only 17 at the time, and she definitely wasn’t as experienced as Christine with regards to masturbation… nor were any other of their guests. The rest of us had no idea what was going to happen next. We all sat around drinking beer and talking while these 2 young ladies got down & dirty right in front of our eyes. They started off by playing Truth Or Dare, then Christine dared Lisa to go upstairs and take off her shirt and bend forward so we could see everything. Then Christine took off her top too, revealing her perky little breasts. Next she pulled Lisa towards her, put her hand between her legs, and began stroking her inner thighs gently. All of us watched intently as Lisa slowly lowered herself onto Christine’s fingers, which now went up inside her vagina instead of just outside. A few minutes later, Christine said something like ‘Lisa get your clothes back on’ because we saw her start getting wetter and wetter through rubbing against each other’s hands. After another minute or so, Christine stood up and walked away saying she needed to use the bathroom, leaving Lisa alone with us girls. As soon as she heard the door close, Lisa came close to us and whispered ‘did you guys notice how big my pussy looks?’ Well, yes indeed we did… And Christine returned shortly after, telling us to leave them alone for awhile longer. Lisa quickly removed her clothing again and bent over backwards in order to show us her crotch area. This time Christine reached underneath her skirt and rubbed her clitoris and labia while standing behind her, making sure not to touch Lisa directly. Soon enough, Christine grabbed Lisa’s hips and penetrated her from behind, moving deeper and faster until she orgasmed loudly. Afterwards, Christine told us that Lisa cried afterwards, and felt ashamed for acting such an exhibitionist. Needless to say, neither of them ever repeated this experience.
Afterwards, Christine asked if anyone wanted to join her and Lisa downstairs to continue partying. Of course everyone except me declined, especially considering I was still horny as hell. However, I thought to myself “what better way to learn about masturbating than actually doing it yourself?” So I followed them down to the basement where they both laid down on the floor, fully naked, facing each other. Once they stopped laughing and joking, Christine proceeded to give Lisa oral stimulation using her lips and tongue. Then Christine pushed her finger(s) deep inside her pussy and kept fingering her even harder. When she finally climaxed, Christine continued on orally servicing her lover before taking her turn. Now remember, I was completely inexperienced here. Although I’d read articles online describing the different types of female orgasm, nothing prepared me for what would follow. At first I couldn’t help but feel embarrassed by my lack of skill, but within seconds I realized that I should try being less uptight about it. Instead of focusing solely on trying to guide my own movements to achieve a similar result, I decided to focus on enjoying the moment and simply relax. In fact, I think I became aroused even more without realizing it. Before long, I found myself reaching my peak quicker than either of them, plus I managed to make loud moaning sounds along with them, which made them laugh hysterically. I also noticed that whenever I climaxed, Christine never let up on stimulating my clitoris, causing me to ejaculate multiple times throughout the night. On the contrary, Lisa did stop sucking my nipples several times to allow me my chance to climax, and although it may seem contradictory to earlier events, she eventually gave up altogether once I achieved orgasm. To sum it up, I learned that it takes practice to master masturbation techniques, and relaxation helps tremendously. Also, don’t worry about showing signs of arousal and pleasure; most people aren’t aware of those things anyway unless you tell them otherwise.
So why do lesbians enjoy watching themselves have sex? Is it purely sexual gratification, or does it serve some greater purpose? Personally, I believe it serves many purposes. For starters, it gives women a sense of self-confidence by seeing their bodies respond in certain ways, whether physically or emotionally. Secondly, it shows solidarity among couples. Through mutual masturbation, a woman can demonstrate affection towards her significant other, giving him/her feedback regarding what he/she likes best, or maybe teaching him/how to please his/hers lady better. Thirdly, it provides the viewer with insight into the process of achieving orgasm. If done correctly, masturbation allows viewers to witness firsthand how the body reacts to erotic stimuli (such as visual cues, touching, etc.) that ultimately leads to orgasm. Lastly, it satisfies voyeuristic tendencies, allowing individuals to view others engage in activities that are taboo to them yet highly arousing. Many men watch pornography featuring women engaging in heterosexual intercourse, while gay males often fantasize about same gender romance scenarios. Some individuals find that viewing images of their favorite celebrities engaged in various forms of intimacy stimulates their libido. Masturbation enthusiasts claim that it makes them more comfortable with their sexuality and aids in understanding their body better. While some folks disagree and insist that masturbation is detrimental to healthy relationships, plenty of studies support the notion that regular masturbation can reduce stress levels and increase overall happiness. Who knows, maybe someday science will figure out how to provide male partners with the ability to perform cunnilingus on their wives/girlfriends… lol.
So I hope this article sheds light on some interesting points for those of you who’ve always wondered what it feels like to masturbate. You’ll probably understand that females masturbate differently than men, and that’s okay! Just remember that enjoyment is key, regardless of personal preference.